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Greenlights is unmistakeably ‘a book that only Matthew McConaughey could have written.’ This is a good thing.” —The Times Magazine (UK) “McConaughey’s own story. GREENLIGHTS by Matthew McConaughey: Grit, Growth, and Purpose Matthew McConaughey’s memoir might just be one of the best surprises of 2020. Greenlights is based on over three decades of his personal journals, and is sprinkled throughout with clips of pages and writings and photos. Greenlights is a remarkable first book from an already renowned artist. Kind of a mashup of Anthony Bourdain with Ernest Hemingway, McConaughey tells stories with the aplomb of accomplished raconteur.

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'There are three things that I need each day. One, I need something to look up to, another to look forward to, and another is someone to chase.' - Oscar acceptance speech by Matthew McConaughey.

This amazing actor published his memoir / biography last year - 'Greenlights'. 'Coz he's turned 50 and wants to share his poems, aphorisms or ‘bumper stickers’ on living life. He compiled his journals (started at the age of 14) and wrote the entire book in 52 days.

McConaughey starts the book by diving deep into the title of his book and explains the metaphor of greenlights means.

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He believes that “a greenlight is being kind to our future self. It’s things in our life that affirm our way, they say ‘go, proceed, more, please carry on.’

While yellow and red lights make us slow down in life — they can be crisis, hardship, intervention, interruption.”

He explains further “The verb of the greenlight metaphor is really in the yellow light, meaning you have the choice to slow down and stop and let it become a red light, which sometimes we need to do in life when we need to have some introspection.'

Finally, he says, “I found all the red and yellow lights in life revealed themselves to have at least a greenlight asset in the future. They have a lesson in them that we were supposed to learn.

Any hardship, any pause we took, any intervention, interruption… they have greenlight assets that will be revealed to us later.”

McConaughey adds, “Red and yellow lights eventually turn green in the rearview mirror.”

McConaughey gives many life lessons in this book. These are 8 life lessons I picked up.

1. Push yourself to take calculated risks:

McConaughey starred in a series of romantic comedies in the 1990s and this became his brand and made him rich. However, he realized he is not getting personal growth and wanted to change professions to become a teacher, a musician or a football coach. He called his financial manager, made calculations and then called his agent and told him he would not be doing any more romantic comedies, knowing the risk of never getting calls from any Hollywood producer ever. He unbranded himself.

20 months later, he finally started to receive offers for serious, author-backed roles that set him on the path to his Oscar. He had gambled and successfully pivoted his brand to a serious actor - which would never have been happened without the complete break.

He says, “I went through an unbranding phase to then rebrand. Again, process of elimination. I wasn't able to do or become what I wanted to become, but I did choose to say, ‘Well, I'm going to stop doing what I've been doing.’”

Think- are you happy with where you are and what you are doing? Can you take a calculated risk and rebrand yourself/ take a pivot? Are you moving forwards and learning something new or just happy with the comfort you have today?

2. Live A Big Life ( Not Necessarily With Big Stuff )

At the height of his superstardom and Hollywood money, Matthew McConaughey enjoyed living in an airstream caravan and travelled across the US with his dog. Whenever the fame and money clouded his judgement, he travelled with minimal possessions to far flung places. Like the best poets, he chose experiences and adventures over an extended period of luxury.

He takes self imposed sabbaticals to write and he puts his family and his spirituality first before material possession. It's inspiring to see someone with so much material wealth still lead a simple yet big life, one tied to values.

The next time you feel you need to buy a car or that new gadget, try and think back to your last purchase and your last holiday/break/adventure. Which made you happier and clear headed?

3. ‘Don’t half-ass it’

When Matthew McConaughey called his father from law school and said he wanted to be an actor instead, his father gave his blessing and said, ‘Don’t half-ass it’. This answer shocked the actor but he followed this maxim thereafter. He went all-in. The book covers several real-life interview tips and tricks as Matthew worked smart and hard to make his own path in the acting world. He went all-in.

This applied even to his lifestyle; music; foundation work; travel; choosing a life partner and bringing up his family.

He shows us how to go all -in on something - no point doing half the work or giving up early. If you fail, it shouldn't be because you failed to try.

4. Create your own greenlights.

A big point in this book is : Sometimes you have to take charge and guide your own way.

As McConaughey says, “I created a lot of the greenlights by taking responsibility today, which created freedom for me tomorrow.

I made decisions today, and sometimes even sacrifices, that teed me up for more pleasure or more of what I wanted tomorrow.”

However, he acknowledges in a Stoic way that sometimes things just go your way - you have to accept it and do one of three things - 1. Accept and give up ; 2. Accept but find a way to pivot and do it ; 3. Learn something from it and make it into a new opportunity.

5. Find your frequency.

This one is easily my favourite. No matter what, staying true to yourself and who you are. We often find ourselves lost and directionless/ easily overwhelmed in life, just like the actor himself was. He broke out of those ruts by choosing travel, solitude, writing and introspection. He tried to understand time and again 'who he was' at that point in his life and what felt true to him.

I'll share a direct quote from 'Greenlights' that explains it.

McConaughey believes that “we all have the feeling when we’re on frequency when our relationships are going well — with our career, our selves, our God. We’re in the flow, we’re not going too fast, we’re in the flow of traffic, in our lane in our zone. What we give out to the world is what is returned to us. But that doesn't last forever and we get in a rut, and we’re off frequency.”

One way to get back in line, he says, is not to “put the pressure on what you want, just get rid of the stuff that we know isn't feeding our true selves by process of elimination — those people, places, things, habits that give us a proverbial hangover the next day.”

He goes on to say that defining who you’re not is key to finding out who you are.

He says, “If you get rid of enough things that don't feed you, aren’t giving you residuals, or teeing up green lights in your future, by sheer mathematics, you'll have more options in front of you that do feed your true self and will feed the greenlights in your future.”

The lesson here for all of us is to focus on who and what we want to become and remove everything that isn’t adding to it, even if the road to it may seem uncertain for now.

6. Turn “can’t” into “can.”

Matthew understand the sheer magic of the life we are given and the story of our life that only we can write - he asks us all to stop limiting ourself before trying for something not done before. If you need help to do it, ask for help. If you need a mentor, find one. If you need to be resourceful and learn more about it or hustle to win, then do it. Commit to your decisions and find a way to work it out.

McConaughey says, “Growing up, can’t was considered a bad word. You got in trouble for using it.” He says, “The lesson being: You may be having trouble, but don't say you can't. If you’re unable to do it yourself, you can seek help from someone else to give you the solution, so that doesn’t mean you couldn’t.”

Think back to your unfulfilled goals - how can you say 'I can...' and work them out?

7. ‘What does my future self think about the decision I'm making now?’

As the book states, it is good to be prepared and ready, even if we don't get what we want right away. Delay immediate gratification to build a better future and catch more greenlights.

McConaughey says, “Preparation does tee us up for delayed gratification, so we avoid that Sunday night stress about what we have to do on Monday morning. It's about having a long view. In all of our decisions as adults, we’re so into immediate gratification. Let’s think about ROI, what’s the decision right now? Sometimes it might be to sacrifice now so I can get more of what I want tomorrow.”

He goes on to say, “If you can project into your future, tomorrow, next week,10 years from now, before you make these decisions, have a little chat with yourself and ask, ‘What does my future self think about the decision I'm making now?’

Our future is a compounding asset. The decisions we're making are part of that compound. As we’re writing the story and making the investments, understand that every decision will have a consequence.”

Your future success is a series of habits you inculcate today - what are you building? It's often as simple as saying no to going out/ watching another TV series to write an article of 1000+ words ( like I did with this one.....)

8. Do you want that extra zero? Define what success means to you.

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What is the larger point of our life? What does success and legacy mean to you? How many more zeroes do you need in your bank account /paycheck to say it's enough. When do you choose to work in a way that builds others around you too?

“The question we need to ask ourselves is: what is success to us? More money? That's fine. A healthy family? A happy marriage? Helping others? To be famous? Spiritually sound? To express ourselves? To create art? To leave the world a better place than we found it?'

What is success to me? Continue to ask yourself that question. How are you prosperous? What is your relevance?

Your answer may change over time and that's fine but do yourself this favor – whatever your answer is, don't choose anything that would jeopardize your soul.

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Prioritize who you are, who you want to be, and don't spend time with anything that antagonizes your character. Don't depend on drinking the Kool-Aid – it's popular, tastes sweet today, but it will give you cavities tomorrow.

Life is not a popularity contest. Be brave, take the hill. But first answer the question.”

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I loved reading 'The Greenlights' and it has got me to revise a lot of what I thought 2021 would be about. Here's hoping you can pick up this roller coaster of a book too.

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Hey this is Annesha! Ninja at reading difficult stuff and writing it in an easy way. Also make videos occasionally as AskAnnie.

Published By

Greenlights is a book by American actor Matthew McConaughey.^[1][2] It was published on October 20, 2020, by the Crown imprint of Crown Publishing Group.^[3] The book includes stories and insights from McConaughey's life in chronological order. It has been described as a memoir but McConaughey has called it an 'approach book'.^[4] It debuted at number one on The New York Times non-fiction best-seller list.^[5]

Background[edit]

McConaughey exiled himself in the desert without electricity for fifty-two days while writing the book.^[6]Greenlights originated from diaries and journals McConaughey began writing when he was fourteen years old.^[7] McConaughey described the book as a collection of 'stories, prayers, poems, people and places and a whole bunch of bumper stickers.'^[8]

Publication and promotion[edit]

Greenlights was published on October 20, 2020, by the Crown imprint of Crown Publishing Group.^[9] McConaughey promoted the book with appearances on Good Morning America,^[10]The Joe Rogan Experience, The Kelly Clarkson Show, The Daily Show with Trevor Noah, The GaryVee Audio Experience, The Tim Ferriss Show, The Howard Stern Show, Pardon My Take, The Dr. Oz Show, Fox & Friends, and Russell Wilson's DangerTalk podcast,^[11]Hot Ones,^[12] and The Jordan B. Peterson Podcast podcast.^[13]

The book debuted at number one on The New York Times non-fiction best-seller list for the week ending October 24, 2020.^[5]

Reception[edit]

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Mark Athitakis of The Washington Post called McConaughey's poetry 'cringeworthy' and criticized his wisdom for being unrelatable, calling the book 'stuffed with vaporous, circular proverbs for would-be McConaugheys.'^[14] In their review, The Times of India wrote, 'The writing is conversational and easy to read, though this is one book whose audiobook form is worth listening to. The actor/author reads it himself, with the correct inflections and even does voices. It's truly entertaining.'^[15] In an interview with McConaughey, Canadian psychologist Jordan Peterson said that the book was 'a collection of great stories'.^[16]

References[edit]

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2. ^Romano, Nick (July 30, 2020). ''Are you lit?' 'Cause Matthew McConaughey is writing a memoir'. Entertainment Weekly. Retrieved October 21, 2020.
3. ^'Greenlights by Matthew McConaughey'. Penguin Random House. Retrieved October 21, 2020.
4. ^Hunt, Elle (October 26, 2020). 'Zen and the art of torso maintenance: Matthew McConaughey's guide to life'. The Guardian. Retrieved October 26, 2020.
5. ^ ^ab'Combined Print & E-Book Nonfiction - Best Sellers'. The New York Times. November 8, 2020. Retrieved October 28, 2020.
6. ^Kirkpatrick, Emily (August 13, 2020). 'Matthew McConaughey Spent 52 Days Alone in the Desert with No Electricity to Write His Memoir'. Vanity Fair. Retrieved October 21, 2020.
7. ^Paiella, Gabriella (October 21, 2020). 'Matthew McConaughey Is Thinking About His Eulogy'. GQ. Retrieved October 21, 2020.
8. ^'Matthew McConaughey on His Memoir Writing Process: 52 Days Alone in the Desert (Without Electricity!)'. People. August 12, 2020. Retrieved October 21, 2020.
9. ^Schaub, Michael (July 30, 2020). 'Matthew McConaughey Is Making His Literary Debut'. Kirkus Reviews. Retrieved October 24, 2020.
10. ^FitzPatrick, Hayley (October 19, 2020). 'Matthew McConaughey talks lifelong dream of being a father and the first moment he saw his wife'. Good Morning America. Retrieved October 24, 2020.
11. ^O'Neal, Sean (October 23, 2020). 'Won't You Say You Love a Dark 'Barney' Movie?'. Texas Monthly. Retrieved October 24, 2020.
12. ^'Matthew McConaughey Grunts it Out While Eating Spicy Wings | Hot Ones'. Complex.com. October 22, 2020. Retrieved February 8, 2021.
13. ^'The Jordan B. Peterson Podcast: Matthew McConaughey'. Apple Podcasts. January 10, 2021. Retrieved January 10, 2021.
14. ^Athitakis, Mark (October 20, 2020). 'Matthew McConaughey is 'alright, alright, alright' — and thinks you will be too'. The Washington Post. Retrieved October 21, 2020.
15. ^'Micro review: 'Greenlights' by Matthew McConaughey'. The Times of India. November 16, 2020. Retrieved March 18, 2021.
16. ^'The Jordan B. Peterson Podcast - Season 4 Episode 1: Matthew McConaughey - YouTube'. www.youtube.com. Retrieved 2021-01-10.